scipy: BUG: Macro collision (`complex`) with Windows SDK in amos code

While building 1.13.0rc1 in conda-forge, I’m running into macro collisions with the windows SDK:

[64/1477] Compiling C object scipy/special/lib_amos.a.p/_amos.c.obj
FAILED: scipy/special/lib_amos.a.p/_amos.c.obj 
"clang-cl" "-Iscipy\special\lib_amos.a.p" "-Iscipy\special" "-I..\scipy\special" "-Iscipy\_lib" "-I..\scipy\_lib" "-I..\scipy\_build_utils\src" "-DNDEBUG" "/MD" "/nologo" "/showIncludes" "/utf-8" "/W2" "/clang:-std=c99" "/O2" "-Wno-unused-but-set-variable" "-Wno-unused-function" "-Wno-conversion" "-Wno-misleading-indentation" "-D_USE_MATH_DEFINES" "/Fdscipy\special\lib_amos.a.p\_amos.c.pdb" /Foscipy/special/lib_amos.a.p/_amos.c.obj "/c" ../scipy/special/_amos.c
In file included from ../scipy/special/_amos.c:96:
../scipy/special\_amos.h(106,15): error: expected ';' after top level declarator
  106 | double complex amos_airy(double complex, int, int, int *, int *);
      |               ^
      |               ;
../scipy/special\_amos.h(107,61): error: redefinition of parameter '_complex'
  107 | int amos_besh(double complex, double, int, int, int, double complex *, int *);
      |                                                             ^
C:\Program Files (x86)\Windows Kits\10\include\10.0.22621.0\ucrt\corecrt_math.h(44,29): note: expanded from macro 'complex'
   44 |             #define complex _complex
      |                             ^

I’m not sure if this would be solved by WIN32_LEAN_AND_MEAN, but in any case, looking at corecrt_math.h directly, the code shows that we could disable it by setting _COMPLEX_DEFINED (or investigating how _CRT_INTERNAL_NONSTDC_NAMES can be disabled).

    // Definition of the _complex struct to be used by those who use the complex
    // functions and want type checking.
    #ifndef _COMPLEX_DEFINED
        #define _COMPLEX_DEFINED

        struct _complex
        {
            double x, y; // real and imaginary parts
        };

        #if defined(_CRT_INTERNAL_NONSTDC_NAMES) && _CRT_INTERNAL_NONSTDC_NAMES && !defined __cplusplus
            // Non-ANSI name for compatibility
            #define complex _complex
        #endif
    #endif

PS. This is ultimately a consequence of https://github.com/scipy/scipy/pull/19587, so CC @ilayn