lima: MacOS M1 Limactl start hangs on Waiting for essential requirement 3 of 5: sshfs binary to be installed (`Could not connect to 127.0.0.1:48100 (127.0.0.1). - connect (111: Connection refused)`)

I have MacOS Monterey on an M1 Macbook, but I think the problem has something to do with my .ssh file, I get this warning, about a gpg key in .ssh not being in ssh format (why is Lima going through my .ssh I’m confused about that), but here is the output. I have confirmed I have 4.6.1 of the slirp and it get’s past requirement 1 anyway, but hangs on the sshfs binary to be installed.

I’m a noob so confused about what magic lima is doing to get the first image bootstrapped.

limactl start

? Creating an instance “default” Proceed with the default configuration INFO[0003] Attempting to download the image from “~/Downloads/impish-server-cloudimg-arm64.img” digest= INFO[0003] Attempting to download the image from “https://cloud-images.ubuntu.com/impish/current/impish-server-cloudimg-arm64.img” digest= INFO[0003] Using cache “/Users/rich/Library/Caches/lima/download/by-url-sha256/a9f81252e41821dac2357ea4c9b5a5a1c71526b41bc4473d6365fa3594b86dd9/data” INFO[0003] Attempting to download the nerdctl archive from “https://github.com/containerd/nerdctl/releases/download/v0.15.0/nerdctl-full-0.15.0-linux-arm64.tar.gz” digest=“sha256:dd8639ce868bab394467576f55375c4b40a8288badb579d2e30c3487da6004ea” INFO[0003] Using cache “/Users/rich/Library/Caches/lima/download/by-url-sha256/e1229ceee50fc4392d95361c97a8746e6f6fbd872da89c050af58054d5730c56/data” WARN[0003] [hostagent] public key “/Users/rich/.ssh/richtong@vivaldi.net.gpg.pub” doesn’t seem to be in ssh format INFO[0004] [hostagent] Starting QEMU (hint: to watch the boot progress, see “/Users/rich/.lima/default/serial.log”) INFO[0004] SSH Local Port: 60022 INFO[0004] [hostagent] Waiting for the essential requirement 1 of 5: “ssh” INFO[0049] [hostagent] The essential requirement 1 of 5 is satisfied INFO[0049] [hostagent] Waiting for the essential requirement 2 of 5: “user session is ready for ssh” INFO[0049] [hostagent] The essential requirement 2 of 5 is satisfied INFO[0049] [hostagent] Waiting for the essential requirement 3 of 5: “sshfs binary to be installed” INFO[0090] [hostagent] Waiting for the essential requirement 3 of 5: “sshfs binary to be installed”